Hi Curtis,
If you look at the earlier posts on this page, Ladan Soleimani already posted a diagram for one scenario. That included a great way of diagramming the first rule. Discussing how to represent the first two rules, she writes the following:
start with K with S in 1 or 2 and then just pick either L or M as the person with R in 2 and S in 3 instead of writing them as dual options. So writing out K with S in 1 and picking L as the person in the second rule who is with R in 2 and S in 3 would start like this:
R __ L __
S K __ L
T __ __ __
That diagram represents one possible scenario very well. If you are looking for a diagram without the additional inferences, I would start with something similar to this:
R
__
__ .....__
S
__
__
__
T
__
__
__
D1 .....D2 .....D3
With start with showing the three dances of the recital, labeled D1, D2, and D3 in my diagram. We can then provide three vertically spaced rows to identify which boy dances with which girl. For example, if we wanted to show that Rita dances with Miguel on dance 1, and then with Luis on dance 2, we would fill the diagram in in the following way:
R
M
L
__
S
__
__
__
T
__
__
__
D1 .....D2 .....D3
Representing the rules by themselves is somewhat tricky, but I think that Ladan did a good job of showing a clear way of showing them as different possible templates. Make sure to read over the earlier posts and let us know if you still have questions about the diagram for this game!